Patience… Determination… Focus – The Keys to Spiritual Practice
Spiritual practice is hard work. It requires discipline, a commitment and genuine compassion. The story of the Buddha Sakyamuni is an illustration of the kind of perfected realisation (Enlightenment) that is possible, when one applies consistent effort, unwaivering dedication, and when one is willing to endure the impermanent obstacles and hardships that may arise in the process.
Those who have followed the work of the Contemplative Monks of the Eightfold Path, or who have know me for any length of time, will readily admit that there have been some obstacles – even some extreme hardships – we’ve had to endure over the past 30 years.
I presently live well below the federal poverty level guidelines. At times, there are weeks that go by, during which we have to sustain ourselves on $30-$40 for groceries. At other times, we are faced with impending eviction, due to not being able to afford the rents in our area – even for the inadequate, tiny and unhealthy tenement in which we now live.
Recently, I met with a young ministerial student, who asked why I didn’t just choose the “easier road” and remain affiliated with a more strictly “traditional” church or spiritual organisation, so that we could count on the parent organisation for funding, support and perhaps even shelter.
I explained that the pursuit of an authentic spiritual practice is only possible, when we keep our hearts open and are determined to sustain our effort through whatever apparent obstacles, challenges and hardships may arise. When I made the decision to make the Dharma of the Buddha and the Dharma of the Christ more accessible to Westerners, without the sectarian politics, drama and exclusionary tactics, I knew I was bound to encounter some difficulties.
It would be easy to become bitter or despondent. The family in Dauphin, Pennsylvania, who asked us for help to keep them from losing their home in November and December – and who offered to allow us to add onto their home and make it into the Karuna House project, so that affordable housing could be provided for up to five or seven other disabled persons, while offering a sanctuary for homeless animals on the property as well – will be losing their home in less than a week. Of the 2700 people who read this blog each month, FOUR PEOPLE opened their hearts and gave what they could to help, which bought the family a little more time, but in the end, we just couldn’t help them save the house. It would be easy to be disgusted, when I know how many people, who don’t think twice about dropping $50-$100 per night at the bar on happy hour or some such nonsense. But that anger would still not motivate them to have done the right thing.
I could become bitter to know that the very same people who have done nothing to assist us in re-building the dharma centre, or supporting the ladrang are running around on Twitter and in their so-called “dharma blogs”, attacking me for using the skills I have to land whatever small consulting gigs I can get with various marketing companies, web design firms, etc. so that I can continue to keep the doors open and roof over our heads.
In the 80’s and 90’s, I successfully taught several direct marketing firms how their sales reps could use dharma-based principles to grow their business, without doing harm to their customers. As a result, I helped one company grow from eight or nine reps to 358,000+ reps in 18 months. And it was the $24K/month that contract generated, that allowed me to maintain the costs of six monastic residences, health insurance for our monks and nuns, food, utilities and operating expenses for more than 15 years. Am I ashamed of that? Not in the least. Does that contradict the supposed prescriptions against a monk making money in the vinaya? Perhaps it does, but I also recognise that the vinaya is culturally irrelevant in the West. And therefore, our Order has moved beyond the “letter of the law” (what Buddha refers to as “a small law”) in favour of doing what is right and what is best to adapt to the cultural ethos of the West.
Surely there will be some who criticise this approach as syncretic – and they’re right. But then, the Buddha’s teachings are likewise syncretic. Buddhism has been a syncretic teaching for more than 3000 years.
Some have criticised us unfairly, claiming that we “dress up in various religious costumes”, when in fact, we simply honour the four traditions from which we come — the lineage of Zen (which comes to us through Onisaburu Deguchi-san Sensei (through Morehei Ueshiba-san, Robert Danza Sensei and Marianne Donoghue Sensei); the lineage of non-sectarian Tibetan Buddhism (as part of the lineage transmitted through our Root Guru, Tenzin Yangchen Ma); the Advaita tradition transmitted by my Refuge Guru, Swami Abishiktananda, OSB; and of course, the apostolic lineage, transmitted through the Church of Antioch, the Syrian-Malankara Church, the Johannite Church, the Orthodox Churches and the Old Catholic and Mariavite Churches.
We don’t choose to get into the pissing-matches that thrive on the Internet, in which people from one sect have attacked someone, who was declared to be a Tulku by a respected Nyingmapa Throne Holder; or the counter attacks, when members of that sect defend their teacher’s decision to allow them to be ordained without what many consider appropriate formation and training. Entering into such debates only adds to the suffering in the world.
Do I find it troublesome, when I hear that someone was ordained with nothing more than a few weeks of summer retreat as their “training”? Yes. I find it deeply disturbing. But rather than get into a battle over it, I would rather simply serve and keep an open heart to allow any of those folks who would like to deepen their training to learn from us, without bringing scandal to their teacher, or their tradition. Besides that, I have no way of knowing how much additional training those folks may or may not have received since their ordination. So it’s none of my business!
I will say this…
Having seen the obstacles thrown in their way, I am more impressed by that group’s continued commitment to do whatever they can do in their practice… to conscientiously call for the protection of animals, the relief efforts in Haiti, and making simple sadhanas available to the public as a means of introducing a meditation practice, than I could ever be by those whose efforts are simply an on-going attack against anyone who is not part of their particular cult, club, circle-jerk, sect.
So yes, there will be hardships… headaches… obstacles… and maybe a little drama. Stop trying to prevent it. Simply learn to sit with it. Gently and compassionately observe such things as they arise, and acknowledge them as passing phenomena… they are ultimately friends, because each of those difficulties bears the seeds for potential transformation and learning.
So rather than allow the troublesome and temporary inconvenience of being in Lancaster, Pennsylvania, where it’s been nearly impossible to find any support for a Dharma Centre, and where we’ve only been forced to live in substandard, uncomfortable and unhealthy conditions; I choose to see the past two years as a chance I have taken to learn to become more mindful of the opportunities hidden in adversity.
And we never know what tomorrow may bring. We maintain the hope that we will one day again be able to afford to build a small ladrang and dharma centre in South Florida. Right now, we don’t know how that will happen, and we don’t invest too much time obsessing over it. There is work to be done right here… right now.
I am personally more concerned at the moment to ensure that Sharon and Otto find a home, when the sheriff’s sale is done and they are dispossessed of their home and belongings. Sometimes, we just have to get our priorities straight, and focus on those who need help more than we do.
Consider adopting a softer, more gentle and more open-hearted approach in your spiritual practice, and watch what unfolds for you as well!
Namasté
khenpo gurudas sunyatananda
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“Chenrezig, Treasure of Objectless Compassion;
Manjushri, Lord of Stainless Wisdom;
Vajrapani, Destroyer of all adversarial forces;
O Je Tsong Khapa – Losang Drakpa —
Crown Jewel of the Sages of the Land of Snows,
Humbly at Your Lotus Feet I ask your blessing.”
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Drawing on the essential teachings of the great spiritual teachers, philosophers and freethinkers throughout time, Khenpo Gurudas Śunyatananda (retired Archbishop Francis-Maria Salvato, O.C.) has been regarded as a provocative, revolutionary “voice of reason” within the field of religion and spirituality, since 1983. Having the distinction of being one of the few openly non-theistic, openly-gay and post-denominational thinkers ever to serve as Bishop-Exarch and spiritual leader of the autocephalic Eastern Catholic Franciscans in North America, Gurudas is the author of more than 600 articles, eight books and currently serves as the spiritual advisor for a non-theistic, intentional spiritual community, The Spiritus Project. He can be reached at: http://dharmadudeunplugged.com
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